Monday, March 29, 2010
5 Steps to Better Sex
Now that you're married, do you find yourself settling into a newlywed routine where you're just too busy to get busy? These tips will help you get in the love groove.
1. Talk It Out
Communication is the key to a healthy relationship -- and a healthy sex life. Don't be afraid to discuss career gripes (he works late nights); family (she wants to spend the holidays with her parents 3,000 miles away); money (juggling shared debt). If you can talk about these things, you'll spend fewer nights huffing and puffing with your backs turned to one another and more time backing each other up against the bed or fridge, huffing and puffing.
2. Get in the Mood
How can you expect to go from zero to 60 without a little warm-up? Half of enjoying nooky is knowing how to rev each other's engines first. Have a picnic in bed with fresh fruit, chocolates, cheese, and wine. Buy a sexy lampshade for the bedroom that induces a romantic vibe. Or just take a bubble bath together. Reinforce your steamy night by writing your spouse a note the following day saying, "Last night was the best three hours we've spent together since the honeymoon."
3. Get the introduction
Make your partner horny while he/she is still at work. No, no, enough of boring sms messages...Use your webcam device! Works our 100 times better;) However, dont let bad quality to destroy the pleasure. Make sure you choose a site of high quality service. Make your sex partner enjoy again!
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3. Be Spontaneous
Post little love notes all over the place where they'll least expect it (in his sock drawer, in her makeup bag); graze his thigh under the table at your own dinner party and ask him for help in the kitchen where you'll douse him with kisses; or, excuse yourself from the Sunday night home movie you're watching, pretend to get a glass of water, and come back to your partner completely naked as if nothing has changed.
4. Have Happy Hours for Two
Commit to doing stuff together outside the bedroom and before 11 p.m. on a daily basis. If you two are always pulling out your BlackBerrys and checking your schedules against one another, consider making a weekly date night: Tuesdays, for example. Every week, that night is for you two and nothing else. And you'll get bonus points for the little things too: going to bed at the same time; slow dancing...naked; taking a yoga class together; or simply indulging in a session of long, passionate kissing.
5. Position Yourself
How can you be bored with sex when there are 600 positions in the Kama Sutra to test out? That's nearly three new positions every week for the first four years of your marriage! Pick up a copy and have fun with it. You don't have to twist yourself into a pretzel every night, but it's important that your sexual energy doesn't go flat. So switch it up and let go of your inhibitions. One night a week, take turns closing your eyes and pointing to a page. Practice makes perfect!
DIRTY SEX GAMES
This might be hard to believe, but it's actually possible to make your sex life even hotter. The key: fun sex games.
1. WebCam Chat!
Get naughty with your partner using your webcams! Thrilling and and totally different sensations! However, dont let bad quality to destroy the pleasure. Make sure you choose a site of high quality service like . Make your sex partner enjoy again!
2. Truth or Dare
Write out five dares -- anything from trying on a sexy outfit to a silly stunt -- on separate pieces of paper. Place them in a bowl. Now take turns asking each other naughty questions, such as, "What's the most unusual place you've ever wanted to have sex?" If you don't answer, dip into the pot and select a dare.
3. Forfeit
Bring treats into the bedroom that have small, easy-to-write-with nozzles, like frosting, chocolate sauce, and whipped cream. Write a naughty word on your partner's body. If they guess the word correctly, they get a small taste of the treat. If they guess wrong, they pay a forfeit by swapping places with you.
4. Wish List
You both think of three sexual things you've always wanted to try and then write them down on separate pieces of paper. Fold them (marked with your initials) and mix 'em up. Take turns drawing out one of the other's wishes, agreeing in advance to at least give it a try.
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5. Strip Poker
Poker's all the rage these days; now make it spicy. The loser bares all, and the winner sees all. If you're not poker fans, you can do this with any card game of your choice. You could even try strip chess, strip Monopoly, whatever. Once one of you has stripped completely, the lovemaking begins with the winner choosing the position.
6. What Is It?
Your partner lies down blindfolded. You lubricate different parts of your body -- fingers, chin, tip of the nose, nipple, and so on. You then touch your partner in various places. They have to guess which body part it is. If they guess correctly, you perform a sex act with that body part that only pleases them.
1. WebCam Chat!
Get naughty with your partner using your webcams! Thrilling and and totally different sensations! However, dont let bad quality to destroy the pleasure. Make sure you choose a site of high quality service like . Make your sex partner enjoy again!
2. Truth or Dare
Write out five dares -- anything from trying on a sexy outfit to a silly stunt -- on separate pieces of paper. Place them in a bowl. Now take turns asking each other naughty questions, such as, "What's the most unusual place you've ever wanted to have sex?" If you don't answer, dip into the pot and select a dare.
3. Forfeit
Bring treats into the bedroom that have small, easy-to-write-with nozzles, like frosting, chocolate sauce, and whipped cream. Write a naughty word on your partner's body. If they guess the word correctly, they get a small taste of the treat. If they guess wrong, they pay a forfeit by swapping places with you.
4. Wish List
You both think of three sexual things you've always wanted to try and then write them down on separate pieces of paper. Fold them (marked with your initials) and mix 'em up. Take turns drawing out one of the other's wishes, agreeing in advance to at least give it a try.
Read More
5. Strip Poker
Poker's all the rage these days; now make it spicy. The loser bares all, and the winner sees all. If you're not poker fans, you can do this with any card game of your choice. You could even try strip chess, strip Monopoly, whatever. Once one of you has stripped completely, the lovemaking begins with the winner choosing the position.
6. What Is It?
Your partner lies down blindfolded. You lubricate different parts of your body -- fingers, chin, tip of the nose, nipple, and so on. You then touch your partner in various places. They have to guess which body part it is. If they guess correctly, you perform a sex act with that body part that only pleases them.
weekend sex
What is the time we all have the greatest sex experience? Weekend, for sure! Well, sometimes not the best, but the biggest at least ;)
This weekend was explosive! I really have something to remember...Good that it was raining like hell and I was forced to stay at home. Webcam saved me again! Poeple, thats amazing! have you ever dreamt of instant sex with a stranger you just saw? Well, it is like that in here!
I chatted with 3 guys on friday and had three massive orgasms...new sex partners make me sooo exited ;)
Whos the next? Tonight I am here: http://tinyurl.com/ydbha4f. Registration is free and the quality is amazing. I think I saved lots of cash this weekend - all the time in here forgetting even about the food ;)
This weekend was explosive! I really have something to remember...Good that it was raining like hell and I was forced to stay at home. Webcam saved me again! Poeple, thats amazing! have you ever dreamt of instant sex with a stranger you just saw? Well, it is like that in here!
I chatted with 3 guys on friday and had three massive orgasms...new sex partners make me sooo exited ;)
Whos the next? Tonight I am here: http://tinyurl.com/ydbha4f. Registration is free and the quality is amazing. I think I saved lots of cash this weekend - all the time in here forgetting even about the food ;)
SEX TOYS: VIBRATORS
Sex toys have been around for at least 2,500 years. Dildos were popular in Ancient Egypt, and even the Romans were known to make large penis-shaped candles. Adult toys have come a long way since then. Nowadays the variety of sex toys on the market is huge and you'll want to experiment to find the right one for you. If you're new to the world of vibrators, there are two main types: the battery-powered dildo, which is penis shaped and designed for insertion, and its smaller counterpart that's designed solely to massage your clitoris.
My first exposure to the latter type occurred when my friend Kirsty dropped in from New York. All she could talk about was the new vibrator she'd acquired. 'I've discovered my clitoris,' she crooned, and took the object of her newfound pleasure out of her bag.
I was expecting to see something that resembled a super-sized frankfurter, but instead I was confronted with an object smaller than a remote control, topped by three ball bearings that rotated to a low hum when switched on. 'It's not for insertion,' Kirsty warned. 'You just run over the - um - sensitive parts, and you orgasm in seconds. When I first got it I didn't leave my bedroom for three days.' Fortunately, her new little friend doesn't look like a conventional sex toy, which was an advantage when Kirsty left it out by her hotel bed. 'I would have been so embarrassed if the hotel maid had found something looking like a dismembered penis on my bedside table. Instead she probably thought it was some sort of muscle relaxant.' Right Kirsty.
Some vibrators provide an extra orgasmic buzz, combining a penetrative action with an appendage to stimulate the clitoris. At Fe-lines, a British sex shop for women, the top seller is the 7-inch, Rabbit Pearl Jelly - the infamous device that kept Sex in the City girl Charlotte busy in bed for a day. The Rabbit Pearl does everything a penis doesn't - the main shaft swivels around inside you while a vibrating appendage provides concentrated rhythm to those sensitive spots.
One caveat however: vibrators are not meant to be replacement penises, although some men worry that they are. They are a way to extend and heighten pleasure, to reach the spots that conventional masturbation techniques can't - and it's all in the name of getting to know your sexual self even better.
Men can get uppity when presented with a sex toy designed to penetrate, as one woman found out the hard way. 'Jack and I were having a bath together and it was getting really steamy,' admitted my friend Melvina. 'He was really turned on so I decided to bring out my new Dancin' Dolphin vibrator. I hadn't told him about it and wanted it to be a surprise. It's waterproof, silicone coated and has a curved nose to hit the G-spot. I explained all this to Jack but he became hysterical. He said if all I needed was 10 inches of silicone, what was I doing with him? He still hasn't come round to the idea, which is a shame because I've been having some real fun with it in the shower.'
Not all men are averse to some vibrating fun, though, and an increasing number of women are buying sex toys to use with partners. Kathryn Hoyle, director of Sh!, a British sex toy shop for women, reports an increase in sales of strap-on dildos amongst couples. 'Thirty per cent of our strap-on sales are to couples. Men are discovering the pleasure of being penetrated and having their prostate rubbed and aren't worried about being considered gay in the process', Kathryn says.
If male reserve isn't the problem, then noise certainly can be. Jane and her boyfriend, Matt, were keen to use their new vibrator. They'd heard that using one for foreplay could be a mega turn-on. When Matt reached for the vibrator and switched it on, Jane screamed, 'Oh my God. Turn it off! That thing will wake up the entire neighbourhood.' Since then, they've tried everything to keep the sound down, piling under three duvets and even locking themselves in the wardrobe to muffle sound. In the end, though, they gave up. They're now going for the vibrator's distant relative - a vibrating cock-ring that hums like a bee.
Read more: Vibrators: get the buzz
My first exposure to the latter type occurred when my friend Kirsty dropped in from New York. All she could talk about was the new vibrator she'd acquired. 'I've discovered my clitoris,' she crooned, and took the object of her newfound pleasure out of her bag.
I was expecting to see something that resembled a super-sized frankfurter, but instead I was confronted with an object smaller than a remote control, topped by three ball bearings that rotated to a low hum when switched on. 'It's not for insertion,' Kirsty warned. 'You just run over the - um - sensitive parts, and you orgasm in seconds. When I first got it I didn't leave my bedroom for three days.' Fortunately, her new little friend doesn't look like a conventional sex toy, which was an advantage when Kirsty left it out by her hotel bed. 'I would have been so embarrassed if the hotel maid had found something looking like a dismembered penis on my bedside table. Instead she probably thought it was some sort of muscle relaxant.' Right Kirsty.
Some vibrators provide an extra orgasmic buzz, combining a penetrative action with an appendage to stimulate the clitoris. At Fe-lines, a British sex shop for women, the top seller is the 7-inch, Rabbit Pearl Jelly - the infamous device that kept Sex in the City girl Charlotte busy in bed for a day. The Rabbit Pearl does everything a penis doesn't - the main shaft swivels around inside you while a vibrating appendage provides concentrated rhythm to those sensitive spots.
One caveat however: vibrators are not meant to be replacement penises, although some men worry that they are. They are a way to extend and heighten pleasure, to reach the spots that conventional masturbation techniques can't - and it's all in the name of getting to know your sexual self even better.
Men can get uppity when presented with a sex toy designed to penetrate, as one woman found out the hard way. 'Jack and I were having a bath together and it was getting really steamy,' admitted my friend Melvina. 'He was really turned on so I decided to bring out my new Dancin' Dolphin vibrator. I hadn't told him about it and wanted it to be a surprise. It's waterproof, silicone coated and has a curved nose to hit the G-spot. I explained all this to Jack but he became hysterical. He said if all I needed was 10 inches of silicone, what was I doing with him? He still hasn't come round to the idea, which is a shame because I've been having some real fun with it in the shower.'
Not all men are averse to some vibrating fun, though, and an increasing number of women are buying sex toys to use with partners. Kathryn Hoyle, director of Sh!, a British sex toy shop for women, reports an increase in sales of strap-on dildos amongst couples. 'Thirty per cent of our strap-on sales are to couples. Men are discovering the pleasure of being penetrated and having their prostate rubbed and aren't worried about being considered gay in the process', Kathryn says.
If male reserve isn't the problem, then noise certainly can be. Jane and her boyfriend, Matt, were keen to use their new vibrator. They'd heard that using one for foreplay could be a mega turn-on. When Matt reached for the vibrator and switched it on, Jane screamed, 'Oh my God. Turn it off! That thing will wake up the entire neighbourhood.' Since then, they've tried everything to keep the sound down, piling under three duvets and even locking themselves in the wardrobe to muffle sound. In the end, though, they gave up. They're now going for the vibrator's distant relative - a vibrating cock-ring that hums like a bee.
Read more: Vibrators: get the buzz
WebCam chat experience
I tried not one or two in my life. The problem is that the chat is not good in qiality if you use your home camera for direct connection. To solve this it is always possible to use specialized programs for free connection. And then...your fantasies come truth....weather they are with a person you have a sheduled meeting agreed, weather they are with a chathost or any oter hungry visitor ;)
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Enjoy, maybe next time we meet there ;)
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Enjoy, maybe next time we meet there ;)
Sunday, March 28, 2010
Sex games at home
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Homemade sex games can be as simple or as complicated as you want to make them. But what's better, is they can also be as inexpensive as you want to make them! You can play sexy games together as a couple using things that you can find right there in your home.
1. Sexy dice game. All you need is a pair of regular dice, a piece of paper and a pen. Write the numbers 1 through 6 twice on the piece of paper and make two lists. The first list will be 6 body parts, the second list will be 6 actions. Now roll the dice and pair up the body parts and actions according to what numbers are on the dice. You may want to mark one die and designate it to either body parts or actions, so that you can tell them apart.
2. Don't have a set of dice? No problem! Make your lists on small pieces of paper, one for each body part or action. Now put all your body parts into one bowl and all your actions into another bowl. When it's your turn, pull out a piece of paper from each bowl. Using this method, you can easily have more than 6 body parts and actions, as well!
3. Sexy card games can be created very easily. All you need is a deck of cards and a good imagination. Change the rules to your particular game, add in some stripping or sexy treats, or even some dirty talk. Personalize and customize it to what you want to try and what turns you both on.
4. The stranger game. Meet your partner out at a bar. Pretend that you don't know each other, that you're just meeting for the first time. The night could even end with a "one-night stand"!
5. Body alphabet. You give your partner a letter and they have to guess what body part you are thinking of that starts with that letter. Be creative and don't just go for the obvious body parts! If they guess it correctly, then you give them a kiss where they want it. If they don't guess correctly on the first try, then they give YOU a kiss.
6. The kissing game. Similar to the drinking game, this one is played while watching a movie. Decide beforehand what "triggers" in the movie you will use - sayings that are repeated, actions that are repeated, etc. Everytime those things are said or done, you get to kiss your partner. Careful, though, all those little kisses may add up to something a little more steamy!
7. Taste, touch and guess. Use food from your kitchen for this one. Syrup, honey, yogurt and other such similar textures work great. The idea is to put some of it on part of your body, you can use more than one kind on different parts. Your partner is blindfolded and they have to explore your body, find the food and identify it only by taste and touch. They can do this with their hands or their mouth, or both!
8. Board games. Turn your board games into sexy games! For monopoly, play as usual, but have sexy treats instead of rent for your properties. For scrabble, spell only sexy words, with bonus points for particularly erotic words. Other board games can be turned sexy by just twisting the rules to include stripping, sexy treats, dirty talking, or whatever works for that particular game.
9. Read erotica. Read each other erotic stories. If you like to write, then write your own. Write one together, or write one on your own to share with your partner later. Make the two of you the "heroes" in the story for an even sexier twist.
10. Make your own video or photos. All you need is a camera for this one. A digital one is the easiest. Take sexy pictures of each other. In fact, do a bit of roleplaying and have one person be the photographer and the other the model. The photographer gets to direct the shoot, the model does as they say. Switch roles so you both get a chance to play each role!
sexy photos
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SEXY PHOTOS TOGETHER! nOTHIN CAN MAKE YOU AS HT AS A SEXY PHOTOSHOOT. BOTH OF YOU COULD NOT WAIT FOR IT TO END ;)
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One Easy Step To Improving Your Dirty Talk
The simple rule is this: Before you can be an excellent dirty talker, you have to be a fantastic dirty listener.
Sounds simple, doesn’t it? The only problem with that is the way we’re wired. When we get nervous or worried about performance, we tend to talk too much, or to try too many things at once. We try to find something that works, even if that means a frantic search. So in our nervousness, we talk all kinds of dirty…but never really slow down to listen.
The next time you are in bed with someone and your dirty talk mojo is not clicking like it should, take a deep breath and simply shut up. Don’t talk. Just listen. Listen to what your partner says, the inflection in their voice, the words they use the most. Pay attention to what they are asking you for, not only with their words, but with their body. When you learn what they want, you will be able to provide it with your dirty talk ideas and phrases.
A very good example of this is the “cunt and pussy” taboo. Some women prefer the word pussy, some prefer cunt, some prefer neither. How do you know which woman are dealing with? You listen! What does she call those body parts? Is she into raunchy words, and loves to talk about her cunt, or does she prefer something a bit softer, and refers to it as her pussy?
You can gauge the dirty talk temperature by simply listening to what your lover says to you. Find what they like and need before you whip out the good stuff, and you will know just how far to go. After all, generic dirty talk is hot…but dirty talk that is obviously tailored to YOU and your desires is even hotter.
Sounds simple, doesn’t it? The only problem with that is the way we’re wired. When we get nervous or worried about performance, we tend to talk too much, or to try too many things at once. We try to find something that works, even if that means a frantic search. So in our nervousness, we talk all kinds of dirty…but never really slow down to listen.
The next time you are in bed with someone and your dirty talk mojo is not clicking like it should, take a deep breath and simply shut up. Don’t talk. Just listen. Listen to what your partner says, the inflection in their voice, the words they use the most. Pay attention to what they are asking you for, not only with their words, but with their body. When you learn what they want, you will be able to provide it with your dirty talk ideas and phrases.
A very good example of this is the “cunt and pussy” taboo. Some women prefer the word pussy, some prefer cunt, some prefer neither. How do you know which woman are dealing with? You listen! What does she call those body parts? Is she into raunchy words, and loves to talk about her cunt, or does she prefer something a bit softer, and refers to it as her pussy?
You can gauge the dirty talk temperature by simply listening to what your lover says to you. Find what they like and need before you whip out the good stuff, and you will know just how far to go. After all, generic dirty talk is hot…but dirty talk that is obviously tailored to YOU and your desires is even hotter.
Dirty Talk With Dirty Sex Toys
Talking dirty to your partner can be hot. But talking dirty to your partner while playing with a naughty little sex toy can be even hotter. The thought of using a sex toy in bed is still taboo for some — hard to believe in this enlightened sexual age, but it’s true!
How do you blend dirty talk, your sex toys, and your partner into the hottest night ever? How do you do such things without making your partner feel a bit worried about the sex toy? Many men worry that they can’t please their woman without the intense stimulation that a vibrator can offer, or they are concerned that she likes the vibrator more than she likes him. How can you overcome that feeling?
You’ve got questions, we’ve got answers. Read on!
Use your vibrator as a tool, not as the main event. By making it clear that the vibrator or other sex toy is simply a little “help,” you will alleviate your partner’s fear that he could be replaced by that Battery Operated Boyfriend.
Use sex toys on him! Choose a sex toy that is specifically made for men, such as a cock ring or a pocket pussy. Then go to town with the fun! Make playing with the sex toy something that focuses on him and what he needs, and make up a fantasy to go with it. When he’s fucking that pocket pussy while you watch, it can be easy to talk dirty to him about that other woman he’s boning, and how much you love watching him do it.
Use sex toys to take the pressure off. Did he come and you didn’t reach the finish line yet? Tell him to lie back, relax, and watch while you do it yourself. He might welcome the opportunity to just lie back and watch what you do, and it takes away the pressure of having to “perform” after he’s already had an orgasm and is feeling sleepy.
Introduce fantasies with your sex toys. As we mentioned a moment ago, using the pocket pussy to simulate another woman in bed with you is just one of the many fantasies you can act out with your sex toys. Why not have that gang bang you’ve always wanted? Why not make him suck a dick — while you watch and direct? It might not happen in real life, but it can definitely happen with sex toys!
The best way to ease sex toys into your dirty talk is to make them fantasies…make them accessible…and remember that what’s good for the goose is good for the gander!
How do you blend dirty talk, your sex toys, and your partner into the hottest night ever? How do you do such things without making your partner feel a bit worried about the sex toy? Many men worry that they can’t please their woman without the intense stimulation that a vibrator can offer, or they are concerned that she likes the vibrator more than she likes him. How can you overcome that feeling?
You’ve got questions, we’ve got answers. Read on!
Use your vibrator as a tool, not as the main event. By making it clear that the vibrator or other sex toy is simply a little “help,” you will alleviate your partner’s fear that he could be replaced by that Battery Operated Boyfriend.
Use sex toys on him! Choose a sex toy that is specifically made for men, such as a cock ring or a pocket pussy. Then go to town with the fun! Make playing with the sex toy something that focuses on him and what he needs, and make up a fantasy to go with it. When he’s fucking that pocket pussy while you watch, it can be easy to talk dirty to him about that other woman he’s boning, and how much you love watching him do it.
Use sex toys to take the pressure off. Did he come and you didn’t reach the finish line yet? Tell him to lie back, relax, and watch while you do it yourself. He might welcome the opportunity to just lie back and watch what you do, and it takes away the pressure of having to “perform” after he’s already had an orgasm and is feeling sleepy.
Introduce fantasies with your sex toys. As we mentioned a moment ago, using the pocket pussy to simulate another woman in bed with you is just one of the many fantasies you can act out with your sex toys. Why not have that gang bang you’ve always wanted? Why not make him suck a dick — while you watch and direct? It might not happen in real life, but it can definitely happen with sex toys!
The best way to ease sex toys into your dirty talk is to make them fantasies…make them accessible…and remember that what’s good for the goose is good for the gander!
Top 10: Female Sex Fantasies
Number 10
Domination (her dominating you)
Women love a big strong man who can sweep them off their feet and carry them into the sunset -- but you may be surprised to learn that one of the top female sex fantasies is to have that same big strong man begging for sexual release in the bedroom. One of the top 10 female fantasies involves tying you down to a bed while she forces you to pleasure her with your tongue; the entire scenario revolves around you worshipping her body and begging for her attention. Why? She gets to be in control while enjoying total devotion from her man in the process. What more could she want?
Number 9
Domination (you dominating her)
The advent of the metrosexual is most commonly blamed for this top 10 female sex fantasy. It seems that modern, independent women actually prefer real men who aren’t afraid to embrace their testosterone. This woman fantasizes about you pinning her down, thrusting her thighs apart with your knee and penetrating her as savagely as you possibly can. She wants to feel your fingers snake through her hair and pull her head back; she wants to feel your teeth on her shoulder; she wants to be owned -- if only while in the bedroom (after which, she’ll want a clear return to equality). This win-win female sex fantasy scenario allows her to fully indulge her femininity, while still espousing the merits of feminism.
Number 8
Teacher/student
You’ll be thrilled to know that the Britney Spears fantasy isn’t just for men: Women love the idea of dressing up like a schoolgirl and parading about for your viewing pleasure. Many would even like to take it a step further, playing the naughty tart who won’t stop teasing you until you pull her over your knee and give her the spanking she craves. That’s right: Loads and loads of grown women fantasize about getting a proper spanking from their man. A spanking from you is exciting for two reasons: not only does this mild show of dominance hurt so good, but it also usually leads straight into hot, hot sex.
Number 7
Sex with a stranger
Most women wouldn’t have the chutzpah to act out this top 10 female sex fantasy, but you’d better believe that most have thoroughly enjoyed thinking about it. No-strings-attached sex is something many women would love to experience, but most are dissuaded from it thanks to a lofty load of self-produced guilt. Nevertheless, her panties definitely get wet at the idea of a gorgeous male approaching her in a dark, smoky bar and taking her back to his room for a long, hot night of wild sex. This female sex fantasy appeals to her naughtiest side -- the kinky one that rarely sees the light of day, thanks to a lifetime of religious and societal conditioning.
Number 6
Threesome with another woman
These days, it’s fairly common for straight women to get down with other women now and again, making this top 10 female sex fantasy a not-so-unrealistic possibility. That being said, this threesome fantasy rarely involves you getting playtime with the second hottie, as most girlfriends do not want to see their man touch another woman. In this scenario, you’re meant to play voyeur until your woman is ready for something more hardcore. This allows her to experience the best of both worlds without having to worry about things like jealousy or sharing.
Number 5
Threesome with two men
This top 10 female sex fantasy involves the woman being worshipped and adored by two gorgeous men. These men are typically heterosexual and, therefore, only interested in the woman -- which translates into a whole lot of action for her. Her sex fantasy might be as innocent as being penetrated by one man while performing oral sex on the other or it might go further, drawing on more hardcore aspects such as double penetration and the like. This female sex fantasy is the ultimate taboo for many women, which makes it all the more fun to imagine.
Number 4
Voyeurism
If you think women don’t enjoy watching other people get it on, you’re completely mistaken. Your woman likes to watch for the same reasons you do: it’s erotic, exhilarating and slightly taboo. She may fantasize about peeping through the neighbor’s bedroom window, spying on a kinky couple in the park or even catching a full-on orgy from the sidelines. Believe it when we tell you she enjoys "watching" just as much as you do; it allows to her be naughty without getting her hands dirty, so to speak.
Number 3
Rape
As mentioned in our Common Female Fantasies article, rape is a massively popular fantasy among women. Most psychologists believe this top 10 female sex fantasy allows a woman to have the wild, dirty sex she craves, without having to suffer the guilt that often follows. These female sex fantasies usually involve a gorgeous man carrying her off to his bedroom and quickly getting down to business. She’ll protest as he tears her clothing off and expertly arouses her body, but on the inside, she’ll love every minute of it. This continues to the point of penetration, and leads her to an incredible orgasm despite her earlier protests. This female sex fantasy allows a woman to be wanton and enjoy sex -- something society rarely permits.
Number 2
Exhibitionism
She might cringe when you bring up the topic of making homemade porn flicks, but your woman has probably fantasized about doing precisely that at one time or another. Unfortunately, most women are far too body-conscious to experiment with such things, making this a top 10 female sex fantasy, as opposed to a reality. Believe it or not, some women even take this desire to the next level, fantasizing about others watching as you shag her silly in a public place.
Number 1
Private dancer
Most women wouldn’t have the nerve to strip in a public setting, but this top 10 female sex fantasy definitely involves taking it all off. She loves the idea of tantalizing you with a striptease, and she’d love to give you a private lap dance. Why? Your enjoyment tells her you find her attractive, and your erection tells her she has control -- a potent combination that women simply can’t get enough of.
fantasy can lead to reality
Some of these female sex fantasies may have little chance of progressing to reality with your woman, but some have more potential than you may realize. A little bit of coaxing can go a long way in terms of spicing things up in the bedroom. Ask her which of these top 10 female sex fantasies she finds most appealing, and see if she’s willing to experiment -- you may be surprised by her answer.
Domination (her dominating you)
Women love a big strong man who can sweep them off their feet and carry them into the sunset -- but you may be surprised to learn that one of the top female sex fantasies is to have that same big strong man begging for sexual release in the bedroom. One of the top 10 female fantasies involves tying you down to a bed while she forces you to pleasure her with your tongue; the entire scenario revolves around you worshipping her body and begging for her attention. Why? She gets to be in control while enjoying total devotion from her man in the process. What more could she want?
Number 9
Domination (you dominating her)
The advent of the metrosexual is most commonly blamed for this top 10 female sex fantasy. It seems that modern, independent women actually prefer real men who aren’t afraid to embrace their testosterone. This woman fantasizes about you pinning her down, thrusting her thighs apart with your knee and penetrating her as savagely as you possibly can. She wants to feel your fingers snake through her hair and pull her head back; she wants to feel your teeth on her shoulder; she wants to be owned -- if only while in the bedroom (after which, she’ll want a clear return to equality). This win-win female sex fantasy scenario allows her to fully indulge her femininity, while still espousing the merits of feminism.
Number 8
Teacher/student
You’ll be thrilled to know that the Britney Spears fantasy isn’t just for men: Women love the idea of dressing up like a schoolgirl and parading about for your viewing pleasure. Many would even like to take it a step further, playing the naughty tart who won’t stop teasing you until you pull her over your knee and give her the spanking she craves. That’s right: Loads and loads of grown women fantasize about getting a proper spanking from their man. A spanking from you is exciting for two reasons: not only does this mild show of dominance hurt so good, but it also usually leads straight into hot, hot sex.
Number 7
Sex with a stranger
Most women wouldn’t have the chutzpah to act out this top 10 female sex fantasy, but you’d better believe that most have thoroughly enjoyed thinking about it. No-strings-attached sex is something many women would love to experience, but most are dissuaded from it thanks to a lofty load of self-produced guilt. Nevertheless, her panties definitely get wet at the idea of a gorgeous male approaching her in a dark, smoky bar and taking her back to his room for a long, hot night of wild sex. This female sex fantasy appeals to her naughtiest side -- the kinky one that rarely sees the light of day, thanks to a lifetime of religious and societal conditioning.
Number 6
Threesome with another woman
These days, it’s fairly common for straight women to get down with other women now and again, making this top 10 female sex fantasy a not-so-unrealistic possibility. That being said, this threesome fantasy rarely involves you getting playtime with the second hottie, as most girlfriends do not want to see their man touch another woman. In this scenario, you’re meant to play voyeur until your woman is ready for something more hardcore. This allows her to experience the best of both worlds without having to worry about things like jealousy or sharing.
Number 5
Threesome with two men
This top 10 female sex fantasy involves the woman being worshipped and adored by two gorgeous men. These men are typically heterosexual and, therefore, only interested in the woman -- which translates into a whole lot of action for her. Her sex fantasy might be as innocent as being penetrated by one man while performing oral sex on the other or it might go further, drawing on more hardcore aspects such as double penetration and the like. This female sex fantasy is the ultimate taboo for many women, which makes it all the more fun to imagine.
Number 4
Voyeurism
If you think women don’t enjoy watching other people get it on, you’re completely mistaken. Your woman likes to watch for the same reasons you do: it’s erotic, exhilarating and slightly taboo. She may fantasize about peeping through the neighbor’s bedroom window, spying on a kinky couple in the park or even catching a full-on orgy from the sidelines. Believe it when we tell you she enjoys "watching" just as much as you do; it allows to her be naughty without getting her hands dirty, so to speak.
Number 3
Rape
As mentioned in our Common Female Fantasies article, rape is a massively popular fantasy among women. Most psychologists believe this top 10 female sex fantasy allows a woman to have the wild, dirty sex she craves, without having to suffer the guilt that often follows. These female sex fantasies usually involve a gorgeous man carrying her off to his bedroom and quickly getting down to business. She’ll protest as he tears her clothing off and expertly arouses her body, but on the inside, she’ll love every minute of it. This continues to the point of penetration, and leads her to an incredible orgasm despite her earlier protests. This female sex fantasy allows a woman to be wanton and enjoy sex -- something society rarely permits.
Number 2
Exhibitionism
She might cringe when you bring up the topic of making homemade porn flicks, but your woman has probably fantasized about doing precisely that at one time or another. Unfortunately, most women are far too body-conscious to experiment with such things, making this a top 10 female sex fantasy, as opposed to a reality. Believe it or not, some women even take this desire to the next level, fantasizing about others watching as you shag her silly in a public place.
Number 1
Private dancer
Most women wouldn’t have the nerve to strip in a public setting, but this top 10 female sex fantasy definitely involves taking it all off. She loves the idea of tantalizing you with a striptease, and she’d love to give you a private lap dance. Why? Your enjoyment tells her you find her attractive, and your erection tells her she has control -- a potent combination that women simply can’t get enough of.
fantasy can lead to reality
Some of these female sex fantasies may have little chance of progressing to reality with your woman, but some have more potential than you may realize. A little bit of coaxing can go a long way in terms of spicing things up in the bedroom. Ask her which of these top 10 female sex fantasies she finds most appealing, and see if she’s willing to experiment -- you may be surprised by her answer.
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