4 Ways To Fine Tune YOUR Online Dating Profile To Get More Messages

If you are actively dating online, you may have one or two or even more profiles up here there and everywhere. It’s the thing to do today, but to date nobody has offered a hand guide in how to write up your online profile to maximize your inbox count. The truth is, if you are a women, you probably have too much information on your profile. Men are scanners when reading by nature, and will only take the time to read if you’ve captured their interest with a great headline or picture. Here are some quick fixes you can make right now to your online profile and watch that message count go up.

1. Catch their eye.

You don’t need to be told by now that you need a profile pic. Not having one is like going to the bar to meet men with a hood over your face. Why would you do that to yourself? Your main picture needs to be outstanding. Bottom line. This is their first impression and they move very quickly. If you want to complement that with a catchy headline, even better. Use something sexy, saucy, feisty, and inviting…without sounding desperate. How about something that intrigues them and invites them in, “Wanna know a secret?” This drives men wild. When they message you asking what your secret is, say something cute and obvious like “my handle isn’t my real name”. Sound like a game? It is, it’s called dating. Play with it, you’re supposed to be having fun here.

2. Short and simple ladies.

Don’t write sagas. Men don’t, and they won’t read them. The purpose of a profile is to get a feel for you, not to get to know you intimately. Mysterious goes a very, very long way in this regard. Be creative, be brief, and say enough to spark their curiosity without being a total blank space. Put your best features forward with a little bit of feist. “Talented and interested in the arts, comfortable in a ball gown or in jeans at the game, wanna know more? I’d love to tell you….” You get the idea.

3. Tip For Man: Catch those ladies: Indicate WEBCAM interest.

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4. Don’t be an Open Book.

Okay, you aren’t going to go on a first date and tell the guy, any guy no matter how you met him: “Okay, you should know that I am looking for a long-term relationship that will lead to a one year engagement with a huge wedding and a new home for our five children.” Why would you even think of expressing that on an online profile? Because if you are wondering, YES, it freaks men out! The unfortunate thing with online dating is that it HAS taken a lot of mystery out of the dating process. Dating is about getting to know men and what they want and sticking around with someone whose ideals mesh with yours. You don’t need to put it all out there until you get to the comfort level where you can have those conversations. Be mysterious. For serious life questions on your profile, if you have the option of entering “Undecided/Open” for questions like marriage and children, DO use that. You will hear from many, MANY more men. Some men are looking for that, but just don’t know it until they find it. That might be you, you don’t want them to miss out on you.

9 Bizarre Sex Tips

1- Bite her

It might sound vicious, but in fact biting is quite sexy and one of the most exciting of our eight bizarre sex tips when done correctly. You are not going to chew or take out chunks of flesh. What you are going to do, however, is much more subtle: Open your mouth on a shoulder, buttock or other fleshy area (her side or thighs) and attempt to close your jaw by applying gentle pressure. Your teeth should never join in the middle, and pinching the skin with the teeth is not what you are after. Don’t overdo it -- a few well-timed bites show your passion. A good example is if you are taking her from behind, and when you climax, bite her back or shoulder.

2- Oil up

Using oil as a medium for your sexual artwork is not new, but it is often underutilized. Oil provides a slick surface for your sex play, and sometimes more is better. The oil should be vegetable-based and smell good. Ylang ylang essential oil is a relaxant and aphrodisiac. The oil should be smooth, like an almond-based oil. Grab a shower curtain or other oil-proof covering, oil yourselves up and slip-slide your way to orgasm.

3- Use hot and cold

Temperature changes stimulate and excite nerves. When outside influences stay the same, your nerves relax and can become desensitized -- they know what’s coming, nothing is changing, so they go to low power. If you stimulate the nerves by changing temperature, they stay awake and, therefore, increase the power of your sexual play. You can use a variety of substances, like hot chocolate, a cool glass of wine or an ice cube. Be careful not to make the experience uncomfortable. Until you get the hang of it, ask for feedback. Use for oral sex or invent your own games.

4- Suck her feet

Some people hate feet or hate their own feet being touched. However, having your foot licked and sucked on is one of the most sensual of the bizarre sex tips. In between the toes and the arch of the foot are the most sensitive areas of the foot. Get her to do it to you, so you know exactly how it feels. Clean, trimmed feet are crucial to this bizarre sex tip’s success. Also, sucking is best done slowly. Be aware of after shower feet -- soap doesn’t taste good.

5- Spank her

Spanking comes in line with biting, but is more pronounced and does hurt; however, it is a scientifically proven fact that buttock spanking while aroused tricks the body into translating the smack as pleasureand provides a rush of blood to the area. Slightly cup your hand, but keep it loose and give the area of the buttock furthest away from the anus a good thwack. You want to get that good slap sound and a good palm-butt connection. Don’t overdo it, porn star.

6- Rub her bum

Make sure she knows you are not going to try to insert a finger (or other object including tongue) into her anus. One method is while she is straddling you, reach around and slide your wet finger up and down over her anus, but don’t put any pressure on it. The same goes while performing oral sex on her. Let her do the same to you. Make sure you are very clean before you start -- some surprises are not hot.

7- Eat

Having a sexy picnic in bed is a great way to incorporate food and sex. Stay away from particularly pungent foods (unless you both really like them) as they can be arid on the breath. Stick to fruits and cheese platters, and use your bodies as the plate. Decadence and pleasure will breed more, so take some food to bed and have a sensual few hours enjoying each other’s company.

8- Take her from a right angle

Make no mistake about it: This is a challenge. Think of all the ways you can have sex at a right angle, and try them all. Sex at a right angle can provide some very interestingly bizarre sex positions, and yes, you are going to have to use your imagination. Some suggestions are the "tong" -- she is almost horizontal, holding herself up with one arm with her bottom leg resting on a bed or other low surface. You are standing, holding her legs and penetrating her.

9 - try webcam

Tease her on her webcam while she is still at work. Naughty foreplay can guarantee wild time when comming bcak home. Dont forget to meet her in the same horny mood!